How To Wear a Scarf Like a Parisian

What is it about a scarf that immediately adds chicness and has the ability to transform you into a woman of style and grace with a hint of European charm? I dont know, but Parisian women dont leave home without one.

Scarves in Paris are not about keeping one warm or covering up a turkey neck, although a scarf is certainly a bonus in both of those cases. A scarf in Paris is about attitude. Its a particular mentality. French women dont just wear a scarf, they flaunt them. Its about throwing on a scarf in just the right way as if to say to all of us tourists, I am fabulous, you not so much. Its confidence. Whats more, its as if French women came out of the womb wearing a scarf in just the right way. Its innate and totally natural.

My clients tell me that scarves are intimidating not to compare that insecurity with a more troublesome neurosis like, oh, say fear of flying. Its just that most of them do not know how to tie a scarf properly or how not to feel overly accessorized. In short, how to wear a scarf with insouciance. So, Ive put together a primer on how to wear a scarf. Some basic dos and donts that should help guide you to donning a scarf with confidence and panache.

1. Size

Regarding the choice of a scarf, my motto is mostly the bigger the better. Example of why right here: Two ladies, two black scarves, indeed. But, the one on the left is far more stylish! Now you know why.

You should always be able to wrap your scarf at least once around your neck without tightening and still have the remaining bits hanging loose on both sides, to the waist or tucked in as pictured on the left.

2. How To Wear It

Either let the ends of the scarf hang loose on your chest, throw behind or tie the scarf around your neck. Avoid wearing scarves that are not wrapped (or cannot be wrapped, that means its too small). Dont wrap too tightly or it appears as if youre choking. And scarves that are too thin will not flatter and look dated.

3. Fabric

The scarf is right near your face and is one of the first things to be noticed in winter, so do not go cheap! If you are going to wear a scarf, avoid synthetics and go for the wool, the linen, the silk, the cashmere Trust me, a scarf is a good investment because you can wear it every day and it will always fit you. So, its worth the splurge.

4. Color

Black or neutrals (beige, grey, white, brown) are always classy. The good thing is that you cannot go wrong with those colors. They pair with anything and still give that extra twist to your outfit. Go a bit crazier by choosing bold colors. Theyll enlighten your face in the grey winter. Only a few rules for choosing the color (other than neutral):

• The color of the scarf should be different than the color of your coat.
• Colors of the scarf should also be different than any color of your outfit (playing matchy is quite old fashioned, except for neutrals).
• Go for neutral scarves if your coat is colorful or match it properly with a complementary color like red with green, for example. But the game is risky.
• If your coat is neutral, you are free to choose any color you feel like.

5. Patterns

Scarves should be fun and you can have plenty. A winter coat very is expensive and a scarf, even a quality one, is cheaper. By owning a bunch of them, you will feel like you have a different black coat every day! And trust me, Parisians own a LOT! So, when it comes to patterns you can be daring. Just follow the same rules as for colorful scarves above and do not pair a patterned scarf with a patterned coat.

Scarf Styling for Large Busted Women

As a custom designer for over 30 years, I have dealt with all figure types. Your concern over how to wear a scarf when you are large busted is a question I get quite often. Its much easier to respond to that question when Im working one on one. Proportion, height, length of neck, the width of shoulders all play into my scarf choices. But on a broad scale let me suggest some features to consider when purchasing a scarf.

1. Choose lightweight fabrics; silks, challis, linen or blends with a soft hand.
2. Solid colors are always a good choice but you dont have to limit yourself to solids only. Look for small prints, i.e. leopard, polka dots, stripes.
3. Avoid heavy bulky knitted fabrications, mohair, anything lofty that will add bulk or girth.
4. Avoid large scale prints and oversized plaids.

A Few Suggestions on How to Tie and Wear A Scarf

1. Tie the scarf around your neck and avoid knotting it at the top of the chest or at the bust point.
2. A diagonal line cuts the figure and redirects the eye.
3. Be creative. Tie your scarf at the wrist, wear as a belt. The chicest way to incorporate a scarf into your wardrobe? Tie it around the handle of your purse!

Good luck with future choices! Probably the most important thing to remember when wearing a scarf wear it with attitude. Own it!

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